Before we dive right into day 2 of How To Change Your Life In The Next 11 Days. I wanted to share with you one of my favorite quotes.
“What you do speaks so loudly that I can’t hear what you say”
I get calls and messages from people every day telling me how bad they want to change their circumstances, BUT most of the time their corresponding actions don’t tell me differently.
When you make a decision to live the life your dreams it takes time and of course MASSIVE ACTION…
You can’t continue to think the way you always have if you want to take your life to another level.
You are who you are and where you are in life, because of all the information that went into your mind and all the decision you made.
If you want to change your life… You need to change the way you think.
Most of us at some point have been told most likely by someone we care or respect that “You aren’t smart enough, strong enough, aggressive enough, pretty enough, out going enough, etc!
Which we have held on many times even from child hood to hold us back.
The first 40 Seconds of this video says it all.
I’ve listened to this video over and over again probably over 100 times already. Nothing in your life will change if YOU don’t change the way you think most importantly about yourself.
When I started Modernized-Lifestyle what kept running through my mind is that this time I have to do everything differently if I want something I’ve never had.
When I wanted to watch TV at night like I usually do, I turned it off and listened to and read personal development book instead, when summer time came which is my favorite time of the year instead of going to the beach to relax.
I was working from my iPhone.
When I wanted to do all the talking, I stepped back and let someone else do the talking.
You have two ears and one mouth… That means listen twice as much as you talk.
Today I am a changed person, my mind works and thinks differently, but the most important thing is that I am living my dreams on a daily basis.
I don’t remember the things that I sacrificed AND honestly many of the things I gave up that I thought brought value to my life were sucking the life out of my dreams.
When you start to think and act differently, people surrounding you will make you feel like you’re doing something wrong.
The very people you thought were your friends or biggest supporters don’t really have YOUR best interest at heart.
As long as you stay where you are at these people are happy because it makes them feel better about themselves.
Did you know, your life is the result of the 5 people you hang with most?
If they are not living the life you want, why are you going to take their advice and criticism?
You have a choice to make, starting now!!!
Are the items on your vision board more important to YOU than what people think?
The ridiculous stories someone told you that have held you back?
Than a relationship with a friend or even family member that secretly loves it every time you fail?
Or do you make a choice TODAY to live a life you truly deserved?
YOU realize that GOD put those dreams inside of you to push you to become the person you really are…
The best thing about success is becoming the person that deep down inside you know you have always been!
Change Your Life Action Steps
Write down all the limiting beliefs you have about yourself that have been holding you back from living the life you deserve AND replace them with empowering thoughts.
I’m not smart enough = I AM SMART ENOUGH
I don’t think I can do this = I AM GOING TO DO THIS
I don’t know what to do = I AM GOING TO LEARN WHAT TO DO
I’m not going to let the past make me bitter = I AM GOING TO MAKE THE PAST MAKE ME BETTER
Every time you have a limiting though of any kind that could be something as small as “wow that is expensive” or “what is wrong with me why can’t I get this going” literally say STOP to yourself and replace it with something positive.
Most Important… Take action today!!!
Take one action today that you have been putting off for a long time.
It may be pulling the trigger to start your own business that has been on your mind continuously or talking with someone about something that has been bothering you.
Taking action makes each of us feel empowered!!!
Let me give you a task to complete…
Report back from yesterday’s exercise in the comment section below and tell me what they did for you personally.
One of the most POWERFUL things in life is being vulnerable when you do so, you empower someone else to do the same.